dearabi1 day ago2 minOut Love With You.I fell out love with you. It's not what you did, it's what you didn't do. When we first met, it was champagne showers after a...
dearabiJun 202 minKnow Better Love.It's easier to be crazy. I could effortlessly spiral into an abyss of anxious attachment like it was my super power. If there was a...
dearabiJun 93 minFear and Loving in San Francisco.I remember pretending to be different women while dating. I don't mean "sexy nurse" on Friday and "naughty school-girl" on Monday either....
dearabiMay 221 minLove the Way You Lie.You lie to me, I lay under you. You tell me how much you like me and I don't know what to do. I make excuses for you to make excuses for...
dearabiMay 202 minWoManifest.I manifested him. A true partner. A motivator. A man that makes me laugh and feel sexy. Someone on the same team. Someone that gives me a...
dearabiApr 262 minCringe. The first time I was on Hinge, it was the first year of the pandemic and roughly three months after my boyfriend and I broke up. It was...
dearabiApr 141 minShowtime.YOU ARE THE CAPTAIN OF YOUR SHIP. YOU ARE THE DIRECTOR OF YOUR SHOW. How it took decades for me to truly grasp this simple idea is beyond...
dearabiApr 42 minwhere have all the butterflies gone?I once heard someone say that "A bright flame burns twice as fast," and it's haunted me ever since. Why does it have to be this way? I...
dearabiMar 282 minSafety, First.My girl Fab said to throw away any medieval lists about prerequisites you have for men and to replace it with a list of how you want...
dearabiMar 251 minFree Falling.You say you're actively falling for me everyday. That's nice. I'm not being an asshole, I mean that. I didn't fall for you, I mean that...
dearabiMar 231 minHeavy.You would never guess it by the way I sweat it, but I questioned it at first. Your stature, your jeans, your hands - my man? Nahhh ... I...
dearabiMar 82 minbe careful what you wish for.I've done a lot of work to heal from heartbreak - to ensure that regardless of what happens, I know and believe I am still loved and more...
dearabiFeb 282 minDay by Day.I'm struggling with finding a healthy balance between "leaning in" and pulling back. Old habits die hard, and I still have a habit of...
dearabiFeb 231 minbut she'll never be you.She was Colombian and Thai. The one before her, French and Black - both dancers. And just like that, I felt so ... plain. It's silly and...
dearabiFeb 121 minSomething New, Something Old. When I was in my twenties I legitimately assumed that once you turned 30, something magical (or at least biological) would happen, and a...
dearabiFeb 72 minA Woman's Love.The saying goes, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" and we've seen its truth time and time again. The things some women do out of...
dearabiJan 182 minAnd Just Like That.I have way too may things to say about the latest chapter of Sex and the City aptly titled, And Just Like That. So many things that it...
dearabiJan 102 minPeople Who Walk in the Rain. I used to be afraid of the rain. I thought it would dissolve the facade of me being OK. Strip me of my smile and uncover a season of sad...
dearabiJan 73 minSex'n w/ the Oldies.Whenever I take a stroll down memory lane and read old sex blogs I think two things: Wow, I can't believe I wrote that and Wow, I can't...
dearabiJan 44 minStay Toxic Folks.Urban legend is if you ask Alexa to play toxic music, Drake's discography will automatically come on. OK, I'm lying. But I ain't lying...