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>Do for Like.

>I always hear that the things you don’t do for your man, another woman will. Usually, these “things” are sexual i.e. head on demand, or better yet – anal. Sometimes, they’re mental i.e. making a man feel like a man, stroking his ego every now and then. Other times, they’re as simple as cooking him a hearty meal or ironing his shirt.

But there’s so much emphasis on the mans perspective in movies, song lyrics, and of course real life, that we fail to remember it can definitely go both ways. But for us? It’s a little different.

If you don’t tell us we’re beautiful. Someone else will. If you don’t remind us how special we are, someone else will. If you don’t send us cute ‘lil text messages that we read over and over and over again, someone else will. And if you don’t do things like bring us our favorite flavor Pop-Tarts along with 2 Milk Chugs – someone probably already has.

Men seem to think women want so much. Not really. The truth is we need so little. So little that some of yall just can’t seen to grasp this concept.

And maybe we won’t get with this “someone else,” but the more” someone else” does what you don’t? It’ll just remind us how much we shouldn’t be with you.

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