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“we repeat what we don’t repair”.
When your heart is broken, your first response is to mend it. This can be done in several ways. For some, it’s going out with...
dearabi
Jun 6, 20172 min read


HELP, I Need an Adult!
If you had told me when I was 18, that on my 33rd birthday I would be drunk slip-and-slide-flip-cupping in a friends backyard, I would’ve...
dearabi
May 25, 20172 min read
‘Sposed to be.
I remember being young and in love. And lucky for me *insert sarcasm here*, I’ve been agonizingly in love more than once. Each time was...
dearabi
May 23, 20172 min read
The Only Acception.
Gym. Yoga. Babies. Those were my go-to’s during a bad break up. They kept me distracted or entertained just long enough to pretend that...
dearabi
May 11, 20172 min read


Wifey 4 Lifey
Last month I planned a surprise, luau-themed bridal shower for everyone’s favorite day of the week and I loved how everything turned out....
dearabi
May 1, 20172 min read


Alerhurrr.
Last week, me and a few of my favorite people went to Hawaii to celebrate 3 birthdays. Although I’ve been to Oahu 4 times, Hawaii is...
dearabi
Apr 27, 20171 min read


Why So Single?
There are a few things you should never ask a woman. There’s a lot of things actually, but at the very least do yourself a favor and...
dearabi
Mar 24, 20172 min read


Man, it feels good to be a motherfucking gangsta.
When the world celebrated #adaywithoutanimmigrant I had no qualms about coming into the office, which may be surprising to some because I...
dearabi
Mar 8, 20172 min read


Ain’t nobody fucking with my clique.
It’s crazy to see how much my framily has changed since we had our very first friendsmas back in 2013. People moved, came back, got...
dearabi
Jan 16, 20171 min read
The Little Things.
When you’re in a relationship, often times it’s the little things that mean the most. Like the “Good Morning” texts that you send on...
dearabi
Jan 15, 20172 min read


Yes He Can, Yes He Did.
As a woman of color, a minority, and an immigrant, some of my political stances may surprise you. There are times where I struggle...
dearabi
Jan 13, 20172 min read
Wants and Needs.
This year I want to go to Iceland, Cuba, Hawaii, Bali, and Thailand. I want Invisalign and lash extensions. I want to finally eat at...
dearabi
Jan 6, 20172 min read


Take A Seat.
If you have any kind of sense, you will have watched the entire first season of Insecure by now and have reveled in it’s glory. While...
dearabi
Jan 4, 20172 min read


all these bridges, and i still can’t get over you.
i try. i think really hard about it too. all these bridges, and i still can’t get over you. i don’t even need to try. it’s right there...
dearabi
Nov 20, 20161 min read
Just the Tip #1
I recently read an IG post that said to delete the numbers of all the men who treated you wrong. If the act hadn’t backfired for me, I’d...
dearabi
Sep 27, 20161 min read
A Letter to my 21 Year Old Self.
Happy birthday you beautiful bitch! I bet you think you’re a big girl now don’t you? Well, I have good and bad news for you: you’re not...
dearabi
Sep 1, 20162 min read


Homegrown x YouLovePoon x Jame Poquiz Photography x SF Barbershop
It’s been a while since I’ve been on a flyer – what more with clothes on lol. #fashion #youlovepoon #sf #photography #sfbarbershop
dearabi
Aug 19, 20161 min read
No Bodies Business.
Growing up, I was called a lot of names in regards to my body. “Midget” and “mosquito bites” were a few of my favorites. I had no tits,...
dearabi
Aug 14, 20162 min read
Fixer Downer.
I had a conversation with my ace this morning. It started with me trying to figure out what tropical island I was going to spend money I...
dearabi
Jul 24, 20162 min read
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