People like to ask me if I miss you or just having someone there. I know they're trying to help, so I don't tell them, "No, I'm not a...

I had a dream about you last night. Right on time too, because I've been wanting to reach out to you more and more. And more. I never...

August is weird. I'm devastated and OK and proud and scared. I think to myself there's no way I could be handling this with such grace....

I am taking my clothes out of the drawer in the Ikea dresser we share. The Ikea dresser I took over, because I have more clothes than...

I have this beautiful apartment, then realized that home is wherever you are. I get eight hours of sleep now, and just spend every waking...

I used to think you could spot an insecure man a mile away. Sometimes they were loud or arrogant. They bragged about what they've done or...

I want to be angry. With you. Angry because you couldn't show up for yourself and be better. You wouldn't try hard enough to take care of...

Happy anniversary, it's been a year since you stopped loving me. 365 days since you shut all the way down and walked out the door, and...

T - 31 Days: The Lease. I knew this time would eventually come. Something to break my heart and make it real. I didn't need to sign it...

I unpack all my boxes. I have dinner with friends. I borrow three forks. And a box cutter. And a wine opener. I put new sheets on my bed....

Sundays were made for lazing in bed. Pancakes for breakfast and tummy scratches. The farmer's market and taking your time, to lay in the...

I don't know who needs to hear this - actually, I do. YOU DO. Person who just unwillingly, begrudgingly heartbreakingly ended a...

I LOVE you. It may not be the “glitter and the gay”, I may not want to shout from a mountain top and I rarely blog about it, but it’s...

Where you met. Your first date. First kiss. Anniversary trips. Your favorite restaurant. Order at Philz. Secret park. Guilty pleasure TV...

I’ve spent most of my blogging existence documenting my quest to fall ridiculously, inconveniently, and agonizingly in love. So does this...

The other day I was sad. Not sad, sad. Just little kid sad, pouting and stuff. It was 79 degrees and we don’t have a deck, or a balcony,...

I’ve been wondering what an “adult breakup” would feel like. Would we wish each other well, insist the other person keeps the most...

I remember when knowing someone who was divorced was unheard of. Now, I’m in the age of second marriages. Safe to say most everyone I...

I don’t know much, but I do know about a woman’s love. It’s selfless. Vast. Unconditional. Boundless. Passionate. Intense. Full. ...

When I was younger, a co-worker I looked up to advised that I never ask the universe for a man to love me as much as I loved him. Reason...